"Do you know how you will let yourself grieve?"
A recent message from my Mom-in-love said this, and as I stared at the question, I knew I didn't really have an answer.
I do know that I will pour out my grief just as I pour out my love- with all my heart, soul and body.
For loss is merely the other part of love.
It is life changing.
"Go in peace! I will not say, do not weep, for not all tears are an evil."
J. R. R. TOLKIEN, The Return of the King